Relationship failure is usually accompanied by intense grief and somber. People feel they are the cause of it all. If it is not well taken care of, it can haunt you for a period.
Overcome your failed relationship with the following steps
Cry it out
It is normal to breakdown when your relationships fail. Spending time on movies and sad songs and even sleeping as long as one wants would help greatly get over a failed relationship. Do not hurry to get into a new relationship to make your ex jealous, rather, view the failure as an experience and recognize that you made mistakes.
Avoid being irrational
Drinking, smoking or even engaging in drugs will not help you get off the pain, It would be more detrimental instead. These will prove that you are too weak to handle the situation, and once you are sober again, You will go back to grief. Instead of such damaging acts, you can do something constructive that will eventually help you get over your past.
Request for support
Terminating relationships can be strenuous, and it often feels like a building that you have been building from scratch has been brought down abruptly, so you will need a helping hand. You need moral support, and at this point, a friend, a close relative or a counselor becomes a real confidant. Talking it out and asking for assistance, and seeking advice will help you get back to normalcy.
Stalking your ex is a bad idea. You may be tempted to do this via social media hoping to hurt the feelings of your ex. But this will only hurt you more no matter how strong you may think you are. You should gather everything that reminds you of the past and keep them somewhere you cannot see them.
You end up getting angry at yourself or the opposite party for the failure of the relationship. Learning to forgive will help you feel free. For you to truly get off a failed relationship, you have to forgive and forget.
Pursuing new endeavors like reconnecting with some old friends, spending more time with relatives or even read some novels you have always yearned to read gives you a chance to get involved and lost in your new lifestyle and with time you get over your past. This is the time you need to love yourself more and do things for yourself.
Use the above steps to help you overcome your past failed relationship and start a new life of self-love and appreciation.